A new beginning.............

Life is a bag full of surprises. Everyday new experiences and new beginnings.One such new and beautiful beginning is Marriage. Marriage is one of the most beautiful moment in everyone's life. A moment filled with joy and happiness, love and affection, smiles and laughter,truth and trust where two travel together holding hand in hand ,in ups and down of life.

As i grew older my perception for marriage has changed.Till a certain age we are unaware of realities of life.But the truth is life moves on- so do the people changes and so do our priorities. Marriage is indeed most vital decision of our life.

Choosing a spouse is most important decision u make in your life. Carriers come and go, your passion wax and wane but your spouse is number one decision in determining your happiness throughout your life.Your whole life will depend on your this crucial decision.

I see a lot of couples who want to get married just they have too. They exactly don't know whether there decision is right or wrong.

Some opt for love marriage because they think there girlfriend /boyfriend is best in the world.Others opt for arrange marriage as they think there life will be ruined, if they don't follow there parent's advice and there family pandit advice.I don't understand these people.They are still shrouded in ignorance and immaturity.

Love marriage or arrange marriage is not really important since both have there pros and cons.What is important is life long commitment and undying affection.Marriage is not about hanging around and doing fun nor its something to be done under pressure.

Marriage comes with lot of responsibilities, acceptance ,love, forgiveness,patience,affection,care,mutual understanding can make a marriage successful.

Before taking a step forward pause a moment and ask yourself is that what i want to do?Is i getting married under some pressure? Is this the  right person for me?Is this the person with whom i can relate myself. Nobody is going to decide what u want in life. Your fate is in your hands.You need to be sure about your decision. Don't take any decision in hurry, and once taken can't be undone.

Think about your preferences. Marry someone that respects you and accepts you like the way you are.Marry someone who want to grow old with you, who supports you, who completes you ,who appreciates you , who motivates you. Marry someone whose happiness means the world to you, whose wrinkles would never deter you from kissing her goodnight, whose sagging body never affect you from caring him,whose pain  is yours pain , whose happiness is your happiness. Marry someone who mean the world to you.A married couple not only support each other but also learn to appreciate each other choices.

Marriage are made in heaven but choices are made by us.A perfect marriage would be one where differences would never matter, love affection and acceptance is there.